What should I do if my girlfriend asks me to delete a friend of the opposite sex whom I have known for many years?
Having dealt with boys like the poster, it's very tiring. And the problem will never stop at being friends of the opposite sex. There will be many more bad things waiting for you to explode in the future. The biggest problem of this kind of boys is that they are confused. You don't know why he comes to date: is he here to understand you, do things you like, make your relationship more harmonious, or to use all kinds of bad things to annoy you and destroy this relationship.
People, when you reach a certain age, whether it is a colleague relationship, a leader relationship, a social relationship, or a family relationship, you should at least know it in your heart. What kind of things will be liked by others, and what kind of things will offend people and be disliked, you should always know it in your heart, right? This is called common sense of social survival. Unless you are a gifted scientist, artist, or descendant of a capitalist, people are willing to flatter you in order to make money from you, and the rest of the ordinary people have to have some sense to survive in society, right? It is the same in a relationship. You don't know what is good and what is bad, what will offend your girlfriend, and what will add points to the relationship. You don't know anything, and you only emphasize your own self-righteousness. That is called having no common sense in love and no IQ for love. If you don't have it, what kind of relationship are you in? Are you here to annoy people? Let me ask you, is it a plus or minus for a boy to have a friend of the opposite sex who has known each other for many years in love and marriage? Is it something that the other party will be excited about or frown slightly. If you think it is a plus, then ask your parents to add this item to your resume when you go to the blind date corner in the future. See if there is a constant stream of people in front of their booth or a few people. See if anyone says that they have a friend of the opposite sex for many years and they are reluctant to give up this friendship during the blind date stage of love. Since it is not a plus, what do you say about it? If you don't tell me, how does your girlfriend know that she is a friend of the opposite sex you have known for many years? There are so many men and women lying in your list. If you don't deliberately say it, if the frequency of your communication and the content of your communication are not special and attract your girlfriend's attention, I don't believe that your girlfriend will suddenly go crazy and ask you to delete someone from your phone. If you don't deliberately emphasize the specialness of this opposite-sex friend to your girlfriend, if you don't treat her differently from others, your girlfriend will not have the seeds of mind at all. Your own series of actions have angered your girlfriend. She gave you an ultimatum to delete her. You started to complain and asked us to attack your girlfriend's tyranny on the Internet. You didn't mention your previous actions that caused this situation. Do you think we are stupid?
There is nothing to say to you. Maslow's needs require you to see more and experience more. If you are hungry, need someone to rub it, want to have children, and need your partner to wipe your body when you are old, you have figured it out, and you have discussed the plan of group retirement with your opposite-sex friend, then you can just support your friendship for many years. I want to say to these girlfriends: You really don't have to work yourself to the bone and help others train their husbands. Those who can't tell the difference between the primary and the secondary and can't figure out the situation in a relationship, after a few times, still can't figure it out, no matter if he is really pretending, just let him go. Seniors in a relationship can't play happily with juniors. Some relationships are destined to teach people how to be human.
